Traditionally, couples didn’t see each other before the wedding ceremony. This was considered bad luck. But things are changing! A “first look” is becoming more popular. It’s a special moment when you see each other for the first time on your wedding day before the ceremony in a private setting, just the two of you (…and your photographer)!
Are you wondering if you should have a first look on your wedding day? Let’s break it down!
Pros of Having a First Look
Take a breather: Weddings can be stressful! A first look gives you a quiet moment to relax with your partner before all the excitement.
More intimacy: Imagine sharing a special moment just the two of you without everyone watching. It’s a chance to really connect.
Less pressure: No need to hold back your tears or smiles during the ceremony. You can be completely yourself.
Extra photo time: Capture amazing pictures before the ceremony and enjoy your guests more.
Better lighting: If your wedding is later in the day, a first look means you can take advantage of the best natural light for photos.
Cons of Having a First Look
Tradition: Some couples love the surprise of seeing each other for the first time as the bride walks down the aisle.
Less drama: Everyone will miss your big reveal during the ceremony.
Potential awkwardness: There’s a bit of pressure to have a perfect reaction.
Time crunch: If your wedding is early, fitting in a first look might be tough.
Planning Your First Look
If you’ve decided to have a first look, here are some tips to help you plan this special moment:
- Find a secluded spot where you won’t be interrupted
- Consider a location with beautiful natural light or a stunning backdrop for your photos.
- Plan for at least 15-20 minutes for the first look and initial photos.
- Ensure the first look fits seamlessly into your overall wedding day schedule. We recommend 1 hour before your ceremony, approximately 30 minutes before your guests begin to arrive.
Alternatives to a First Look
If you’re still reading but shaking your head (and thinking you don’t want anything to do with your groom on your wedding day until you’re walking down the aisle), another fun option is having a first look with your dad or bridesmaids. Check out the photos below to get some ideas.
A First Touch
A First Look with Mom or Dad
A First Look with Bridesmaids
Final Thoughts
The final decision is yours! Both options have their charm. Choose what feels right for you and your partner. Remember, your wedding day is all about celebrating your love, so pick what makes you both happy!
If you want to see even more photos, check out our wedding gallery.
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